Pahale pyar ka Pehala nasha..


Mere  Pahale pyar ka ,Pehala nasha…
Mujhko toh bada hii, Dilkash lagaa !!
Pehali naZar me hii ,DiL churane ki uski adaa

Mujhko to badii maiikash lagi,
Aaisa lagaya nishana nazre karam ka

ki Wo seedha Dil pe waar kar gaya !!
Uski baaton ki un ghane lacchon ne

Meri zindagi ke taaro ko uljhaa diya..

AankhooN me bas gai unki surat
Aaisa kya usne jaadoo kar diyaApni palko ko jhuka kar
ikraar-e-wafa kar diya
Ek pal me hii uss humnashi ne
Hume apana kayal kar diya
Iss mausam-e-mohabbat me
buttt se khade,
Dekhate reh gaye hum….
Uss hasti ne hume aisa pagal kar diya..!!


I hate love

“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so
vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it
means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love. “Love is when he is mean to you and youstill want him, it’s when he ignores you and you still love him, it’s when he loves another girl but
you still smile and say I’m happy for you, when all you really want to do is cry.”

“A wise girl asks but doesn’tbelieve :;
kisses but doesn’t fall in love :;
&+ leaves before she getsleft ” – Marilyn Monroe

Mai tujhe pyar nahi karta

main lafzon mai kuch bhi izhar nahi karta

iska matlab ye nahi k main tujhe pyar nahi karta

chahta hoon main tujhe aaj bhi par

teri soch mei apna waqt bekar nahi karta

tamasha naa ban jaaye kahi mohabbat meri

isi liye apne dard ka izhaarr nahi karta

jo kuch mila hai usi mei khush hoon main

tere liye khuda se taqraar nahi karta

par kuch tou baat hai teri fitrat mein zalim

warna Mein tujhe chahne ki khataa bar bar nahi karta

A small letter

Its a very small letter that I found somewhere on net.I would like all my friends especially males to read it and ponder over it.Its a piece of advice that all of us should listen..

T his is a beautiful article:
he woman in your life…very well expressed…

Tomorrow you may get a working woman,
but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than  you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

One, who can be late from work once in a while
when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this……

Please appreciate “HER”

I hope you will do..

hum yaad ayenge

Talaash karo koi tumhe mil jayega- magar hamari tarah tumhe kaun chahega- zarur koi chahat ki nazro se tumhe dekhega- magar aakhen hamari kaha se layega…

Ki thi shuruaat ek chooti si mazak se…Mazak dard ban jayega yeh malum na tha Samajte the jise hum aapna “YAAR”… wo “Pyaar” ban jayega malum na tha…!!

Agar Kal hum na bhi rahe, hamari yade sada zinda rahegi, sirf nazar uhtaake CHAND ko dekh lena, hamare rishte ki tasvir waha bani rahegi!!!!!

Hum raat ki tanhai mai unhe yaad kiya karte hai aur sitaro se unka zikar kiya karte hai woh aaye na aaye khawbo main fir bhi hum unka intezar kiya karte hai….

Tanhai mai fariad kar sakte hai virane ko aabad kar sakte hai, kya hua aapse mil nahi sakte, sachhe dil se aapko yaad to kar sakte hai……….

Dhalti shaam ka khula ehsas hai, mere dil mai teri jagah khuch khas hai, tu nahi hai yaha malum hai mujhe, par dil yeh kehta hai tu yahi mere paas hai…..

Raat hogi chand dikhai dega, Khuda khidkise niharta dikhai dega.Yeh mohabbat hai sambhal kar rona, aansu bhi gira to Sunai dega…….

Palko mai kaid kuch sapne hai, Kuch begane kuch apne hai, na jane kya KASHISH hai in khayalo mai, WO gair hoke bhi apne hai.

Nazaro se nazaro ka takrav hota hai, har mod par kisika intezar hota hai, dil rota hai aur zakhm haste hai, isika naam to pyaar hota hai.

Aarzo nahi dur se dekhne ki, kareeb aana bhi nahi chahte, tammana nahi tumhe pane ki, par tumhe khona bhi nahi chahte……..!!!!!!!

Aapki mahfil ka mausam suhana lage, ek pal churalu agar bura na lage, aap hamain milkar bhul jaoage, par aapko bhulanemain shayad humko janmo lage…

Kisi mod par hum aapko khone nahi denge, juda hona bhi chaho to hone nahi denge, ChANDANI rato mai aayegi meri yaad, meri yaad ke woh pal aapko sone nahi denge.

Royegi aakhe muskurane ke baad, aayegi raat din dhaljane ke baad, oh janewale zara mud ke dekh, shayad yeh ZINDAGI hi na rahe tere jaane ke baad……….

Unse hum pyaar is tarah karte hai, kuch keh kar bhi kuch keh nahi paate. Mohhabat ko dosti ka karar dete hai, kyu ki unhe hum khona nahi chahte……

Maine Khuda se ek dua maangi, Dua mein apni mout maangi, Khuda ne kaha mout to main tujhe de sakta hoon magar, Uska kya karoon Jisne dua mein Teri lambi umar maangi.

Laher aati hai kinaare se palat jaati hai, yaad aati hai aur dil mein simat jaati hai,Laher aur yaad mein farq sirf itna hai ki, Laher bewaqt aur yaad har waqt aati hai.

Tapish suraj ki hoti hai, jalna zameen ko padta hai , kasur ankhon ka hota hai, tadpana dil ko padta hai.

Zindagi sabko milay jaroori to nahi, mohobat sabko milay jaroori to nahi, kuch log bahut yaad aate hai zindagi mein,woh bhi hume yaad kare ye jaroori to nahi…

Aansuon ko bahut samjhaya ki tanhayi mein aaya karo, mehfil mein aaake humara mazaak na udaaya karo, is par aansun tadap kar bole, itne logon mein aapko tanha paate hain isliye chale aate hain……

Tez dhadkanoon ko sunkar bhi tumhe , pyar ki khabar nahi hoti……kya mehsoos karoge tum dil ka dard, dil ke tutne ki to awaaz bhi nahi hoti……

Naa chaho kisi ko itna, ki chahat tumari majburi ban jayee,chaho kisi ko itna,, ki tumhara pyar uske le jaruri ban jaye…..

Raat kya dhali, Sitare Chale Gaye, Gairon se kiya Gila jab, Apne Chale Gaye, Jeet to sakte the Hum Ishq ki bazi, magar Tumhe jitane ke liye hum harte chale gaye….

Ik Din Baharon Ke Phool Murjha Jayenge, Jab Bhoole Se Kabhi Hum Yaad Aayenge, Ehsaas Hoga Tumhe Hamari Dosti Ka, Jab Door Bahut Door Hum Tumse Chale Jayenge.

kadam kadam pe hawaon se talukh rakhna, dosti ke daur pe dosti ka aasra rakhna, Hamari yaadon ki khushboo jarur aayegi, aap bas apne dil ka darwaja khula rakhna.

Dard Jab Bhi Ubhare Mere Sine Main

Dard Jab Bhi Ubhare Mere Sine Main , Karar Tujhko Na Aaye Jine Main|

Gam Ka Pahaar Tujhpe Toote Iss Kadar, Umra Kat Jaye Aansoo Pine Main|

Maut Maange magar Tujhe Maut Na Mile, Jindagi Bojh Lagne Lage, Tujhe Jine Main|

Tu Chahkar Bhi Kisi Ki Ho Na Sake, Jaise Angoothi Hoti Hai, Nagine Main|

Tu Tarpe To, Dard Aaisi Uthe, Jaisi Uthati Hai, Aaj Mere Sine Main|

Dard Jab Bhi Ubhare Mare Sine Main , Karar Tujhko Na Aaye, Jine Main||

Love -as defined by children

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, “What does love mean?”
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.”

Rebecca- age 8

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

Billy – age 4

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.”

Karl – age 5

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.”

Chrissy – age 6

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

Terri – age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

Danny – age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss”

Emily – age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.”

Bobby – age 7

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,”

Nikka – age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.”

Noelle – age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”

Tommy – age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.

He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.”

Cindy – age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody
You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.”

Clare – age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”

Elaine-age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.”

Chris – age 7

“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”

Mary Ann – age 4

“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.”

Lauren – age 4

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image)

Karen – age 7

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.”

Mark – age 6

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

Jessica – age 8